How to cope with a rebound relationship

After breaking up from a 7-year-long relationship, Nithin was finding it difficult to cope with emptiness that he was going through.
He was craving for constant attention and slipped into depression when the people around didn't give him any . After going on a couple of blind dates, Nithin believed that it was time for him to be in a relationship again.So, within two months of his break-up, he was dating Nithya. Though the first two months were really pleasant, he found that he was gradually losing interest in this relationship. He tried dragging it, fearing another break-up. It wasn't until his friends pointed out that he was in a rebound relationship that Nithin understood the difference. If you are unaware of what a rebound is, read on.
What is a rebound relationship?
If someone is in a relationship shortly after breaking up from a long-term one, the new relationship, if it is short-term, is called a rebound.Rebound relationships can be quite intense. It's often the case that the longer the previous relationship, the more intense the rebound. When going through a breakup, it's a form of emotional crisis. Even if we weren't happy in our relationship, there's an aching feeling of being grounded in the sense that our attachment needs are being soothed.
Tips to remember in a rebound relationship
1. Don't expect too much and don't look for a future and don't expect your partner to make up for the loopholes of your previous partner. If your partner is willing to commit, don't jump to conclusions. In fact, even you shouldn't commit too early or too soon.
2. Don't use the person to overcome your emotional struggles. Often in rebound relation ships, one of the two ends up feeling used. If your only motive is to distract yourself from the break-up, then there are other ways. Don't rely on the other person to heal your pain.
3. Be friends first before involving romantic call. It's always a good thing to meet new people and learn new things about them.The first thing in your mind should be to be friends with the person you want to have a rebound with.
4. Try a rebound with a different person. Be in a rebound with a person who helps you to come out of your dating comfort zone. Date someone who has opposite traits than you. For instance, if you don't like reading or poetry, date someone who likes both and try getting involved in their hobbies.
5. Be honest and don't lie about your last relationship. In fact, don't lie about anything. Be honest and have trust in the person. Being honest in this relationship will help you rebuild your damaged self-esteem. Be emotionally available and learn to have trust in your partner.